The Beginings

First off I want to say that this is a blog about me and my son. This is to record our trials in life, my struggles at being a single father in a world that is mainly woman as parents, where there is less sympathy and understanding for being a single father. This is to show that I can do it, a place where I can look back and reflect on my trials, see the lessons that life has taught me. This blog will go over many topics as they come up, everything from child raring, cooking and cleaning, dating, and just plan out fun. There's going to be some ups and downs, some crying, some pain, but hopefully much more tears of joy, much more laughing as we adjust to our new circumstances with the cards we have been dealt.
So I ask you to view this with an open mind, to chime in when you have something to say, all help and guidance is welcome, but keep in mind all down right nasty comments will be removed, other then that feel free to say just about anything, share a story.

So now it is time for the introductions. This is Isaac, my pride and joy, the reason that I breath and wake up every day. He's going to be turning eight this coming month, my how time flys, I look back and it feels as if I just was holding him in my arms, and changing his diapers. He makes my whole day, he has the energy of the son, my little monkey; partly because of his ADHD, but other then keeping his attention, he is totally awesome, the most polite and considerate little boy that makes me proud each and every day. I'm so grateful to have him in my life, he completes me and helps me in so many ways that it is just unbelievable that a child can be such a spiritual and up lifting force.

Now it is my turn, here goes nothing. My name is Joe I live life as best as I can, falling into my new roll as a single father wasn't to hard, but I know that the road will be a little bumpy from time to time as we grew with one another. I like to be outside, play and just have fun with my son. I try and be optimistic with all that is around me, sometimes that seems hard. Certain times of the year affect me different, as memories from my past come and attack me all at once. It seems to happen a little less these days, but it happens none the less. I have a ton of patience, I have too with my son and his special circumstances. I have had a few career changes in my life, been everything from a bag boy, to an assistant superintendent on a construction site, by far that was the best one that I had. I currently fix jets in the United States Navy, an aircraft structural mechanic, I love this job, and I'm not nocking the military, but its just not for me, nor do I want to be away from my son as much as this job requires. Tell you what though, the greatest joy that I can say that I have had, is working on a jet all night/day, and watching it as it goes down the line and launches into the sky; mission accomplished. At some point I would like to settle down, remarry, and have more kids, but for the moment, I'm going to try this bachelor thing out, see where it takes the two of us.
So that's just about everything, that's our short story,for the beginnings anyway. Stick around, you might learn something, or have something worth sharing. Always remember, live life to the fullest, cause life isn't about the moments that take your breath away, but recreating more moments that take your breath away, it's your life, live it to the fullest, live it the best you can. God bless and keep your head up!!!

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